what is smitten over self?
Smitten Over Self is a space for single women learning how to build a deeper, more intentional relationship
with themselves and fall for who they are along the way.
As your self-love bestie and solo date plug, I’m here to put you on to new ways of spending intentional time with yourself. Through solo dates, self-connection, and experiences designed to help you get to know yourself better, I’ll show you how to become your own favorite company and stop waiting on other people to make life happen for you.
This isn’t about isolating yourself, girl. It’s about learning how to show up for yourself, trust yourself, enjoy your own company, and build a life that feels good to live, whether you're doing it alone or not. So consider this your reminder that the relationship you have with yourself deserves just as much intention as the relationships you have with everyone else.
who sos serves
Smitten Over Self is for the woman who is:
Navigating singlehood and craving a more grounded, confident, and fulfilled life on your own.
Desiring intentional time with yourself but unsure where to begin.
Wanting a deeper relationship with yourself and ready to truly learn how to enjoy your own company & find solace in your solitude.
Healing, rediscovering who you are, and coming back home to yourself.
Wanting to romanticize your everyday life and create meaningful moments alone.
Learning how to slow down, soften, and prioritize yourself without guilt.
Whether you’re new to solo dates or already on your self-love journey, Smitten Over Self meets you where you are and supports you as you continue choosing yourself with care
work with me:
choose how you'd like to work together ↓
Custom solo date plans curated just for you. I do all the planning for you so you can simply show up to your solo dates and enjoy.
Partner with Smitten Over Self to create meaningful, feel good experiences.
Date Yourself by Design is a personal solo date planning experience where I step in as your dedicated solo date advisor & coach. I curate intentional and meaningful solo dates tailored to you and handle all of the research, planning, and details so you can simply show up to your dates and enjoy.
There are two experiences available.
Please choose the one that works best for you below.
sincerely to
Self
Solo date inspiration, self-love reminders, gentle nudges to keep choosing yourself + first dibs and early access to everything SOS when you join the email list.
![Girllllll, SOS has an official DOT COM 🥹 and she’s finally live! [screams internally]
This isn’t just a regular website launch for me. It’s a home for all the girlies looking for a safe space on their self love and solo date journey. I want this to be that for you, which means it’s really launch day for all of us!
It’s a space where you can now:
🫶🏾 book me for my solo date planning service
🫶🏾 see what SOS events are coming up
🫶🏾 send an inquiry to collab + partner with me
🫶🏾 sign up for my email list for exclusive solo date inspo, self-love notes, girl chats + first dibs on what’s coming next for Smitten Over Self
and so much more. Everything you need is now all in one digital space and I’m so excited to be sharing this with yall.
I have so much more coming to my dot com soon so trust me when I say, this is just the beginning for SOS.
Link to my site is in my bio 🔗 smittenoverself.com
#smallbusiness #launchday #announcement #reels #websitelaunch](https://scontent-den2-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/840663978_17950168911340448_3595397337920912305_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=KYcjUwjOj0IQ7kNvwEwOA3l&_nc_oc=AdpgfbImqk0BBASQHarmDOnTfR1SHLhNmef6kdBkeBrXNd2idTyBBNpGHa2-by4Eb90&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-den2-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=MqTfS2ze8hciwhJaS4L1Ig&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQKrKKL-wk0RfqArTdiolTV-_QZ_3L0XOlcO5pThfSUp7VGjAuyFHujB_qcbAueBPI-2co-WbpLL&oh=00_AQNVTXDpj0_ITWWfq-c66sQCTBU92awmPmAT33JuD7-08g&oe=6ADAB449)
![The Art of Solo Dates [S3 E2]: Social Club 💭🤸🏾♀️
Going to places solo doesn’t necessarily mean you have to stay solo the entire time. Especially if you’re wanting to meet new people on purpose. You’ll show up solo, of course. However, if your intention is to connect with others, you more than likely won’t leave a social club event that way.
You’ll leave with new connections and get this, new connections with similar interests as you because you met at an event that piqued both or all of your interests.
To find a social club near you, you can search “social club in (your city)” on this app, the clock app, Eventbrite, Posh, Sweatpals, any search engine, and even Facebook events.
SATX girlies, @createher.collectives_ hosts super cute events every month. Which means there are plenty of opportunities to attend one, find your people, and have so much fun in the process 💕
#solodateideas #makenewfriends #socialclub #becomingher #newfriends](https://scontent-den2-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/844685451_17950724427340448_9158406829520840447_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=110&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=yIiwigSGsRQQ7kNvwEsmN0B&_nc_oc=AdqpPH8Wuy588CSfXNYNqsaOJZcIBcq09O1EcYOPRXLWF-dqWo2SmcQXtffYTeq7CDg&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-den2-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=MqTfS2ze8hciwhJaS4L1Ig&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQLfvfzx_G58_-7HJYdKNqTVSoJNsnpCgBukRUgMZhQmIu7bgM_JhQCifpQDp0xvrIM56LqaFf_3&oh=00_AQOGtdmwrWO-1dGbR8DSk_z-yAZ4kYf7x_EWC4Sz4XaM-g&oe=6ADAB065)
![The Art of Solo Dates [S3 E1]: Paint by Numbers 🎨
Girl, solo dates don’t always have to be a night out on the town. Whatever your vibe is, you can absolutely turn a paint by numbers kit from @diy_artclub into a super cute solo date experience without even leaving the house.
Paint + sip.
Paint + music.
Paint + a movie.
Paint + an audiobook/podcast.
Paint + your prerogative.
This solo date idea is perfect for the homebody girlies or those times when you really don’t feel like being away from your space but you’re still wanting something enjoyable to do.
A paint date at home is the perfect solo date for beginners. It’s also calming, can help you decompress, and gives you something enjoyable to focus on, even if you don’t have a creative bone in your body. You don’t need one for this, girl 🤌🏾
#artsandcraft #thingstodoathome #homebody #paintbynumbers #solodateideas](https://scontent-den2-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.82787-15/845681422_17950722855340448_7223419903251569996_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=100&ccb=7-5&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiQ0xJUFMuYmVzdF9pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uQzMifQ%3D%3D&_nc_ohc=QsSL4hGSlnkQ7kNvwHGdqfm&_nc_oc=Ado6lhE3dFLGk9Bq8lXbmyL3d6UPyZM10mzPK0xlIkbAcpQiJxq3r_EX3Owa3wctq3k&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-den2-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=MqTfS2ze8hciwhJaS4L1Ig&_nc_tpa=Q5bMBQL-2IwEdVbi0Y8aHKUjI_whwmPDuqRmgzx3ewHK3dtrFdAegacYgFrt0o1wCmCOtLHMh3U7Kxd8&oh=00_AQMnUI7CziWbFc0Uz4vAY5Vn8jKSJAbA7PitEWZ-q52gEw&oe=6ADAC009)
